Wednesday, November 14, 2012

WE ARE TALKING OF A WOMAN IN CRISIS

Schola and Patrick on 10th December 2011 on her wedding day
Scholastica Omar is her name after getting married to Omar Patrick,a born again christian,who loves his wife his new bride .shcolastica got married to Patrick on 10th December 2011.she is about 11  months in her marriage. Schola is 32 years old.
Schola and Patrick on their engagement day









March was the beginning of what has led Schola into the situation she is in today.I truly dont know exactly what to describe her situation but it fits well the term I use in this ministry "CRISIS".In March this year,Schola begun falling sick suffering from severe stomach aches and different sicknesses,when she was taken to the hospital,she was diognised with ulcers which was severe,and also was found pregnant at the same time.She had colic abdominal pains on and off,when she seemed not to pick up,she was taken back to the hospital and had a general check up she was found with what the Doctor termed as Gross Ascites due to inflamed cells,TB Peritonitis, at this point she got admitted because she was already deteriorating a lot and at a very high speed.when things didn't improve,she was transferred to Mulago hospital in Kampala the big city of Uganda and the treatment there was still not so good so she developed also malnutrition and yet she was still carrying her baby and the baby was growing  by God's grace,she had persistent Hiccups and vomiting freq
uently this all contributed to her malnutrition. Schola could not get all the treatment she needed because she was carrying life in the inside of her and the doctors had to be very careful with what they are giving her.
Schola in yellow on her engagement day
So the doctors advised her husband to transfer her to a better hospital Nakasero hospital which has better services it is in the standard of an international hospital,they told Patrick if he wants his wife alive and probably the baby too,then he had to take her there.By faith Patrick moves his wife to Nakasero hospital and she gets admitted there,by this time her baby is 6 months and  the doctor diagnoses something else he called Impetigo Herpetifomis Gestationis, and he tells Patrick they have to take the baby out of Schola and put it in the incubators and it will be safer there than in the inside of the mother who is not eating and is on serious drugs,that is when he tells Patrick that taking care of the baby for four weeks in the incubator and treating the mother too will take the full cost of 16000$ US,that is when I wrote first about Schola's case on Woman In Crisis,this was a bomb on Patrick because he doesn't have such amount of money,only God can do a miracle like that.
Two days later as they were waiting for the baby to make 30 weeks so they can take it out. Schola gets premature labor and she gives birth to a dead baby,before the baby comes out,the doctor tells Schola that the baby may not make it,and Schola still had a lot of faith and told the doctor that God is in control,she even told the doctor not to be
Schola: how she looks now
worried.I believe just like I believed and hoped that God would make a miracle and resurrect my baby Hunter  for me so I can be his mother again,Schola believed the same until her baby came out dead and she was told they were going to bury her baby but she could not go because she was very weak.this is when Schola breaks down,it was real,she had lost her first baby,she had lost what she had been holding onto so dearly,the life she was carrying,her friend who kicked her and reminded her that she was still alive even though she was in this pain.,I receive a call from my friend Agnes Twoli Schola's matron and friend too ,she is the director of Womenfirst,and she tells me that we just lost the baby,I broke down and cried,I couldn't contain it any more. Schola is in pain,she needed her baby with her,at least in her or at least in the incubator,
Schola in her present situation
but not under the ground,no God,this is painful,I wanted to go to Schola there and then,but i knew i had no words for her,I knew i couldn't face her,I knew I couldn't stand the look on her face,I announced there and then about the death of this little angel,and most of you friends of Woman In Crisis,responded by praying for her,thank you so much,a friend wrote a message immediately for me to take to Schola,that message was as if it was written to me, every time i face a mother in crisis of loosing her baby,my angel Hunter comes back in my heart and brain immediately,sometimes i cant control it,but all you do with me is very important because it ministers to all these mothers and to me too,i must admit it means a lot to me doing this ministry.thank you for standing with me.this ministry was born after I lost my sweet angel,baby Hunter Ushindi  Birungi,it is Hunter foundation ministry,it means a lot to me whenever i see a mother being helped,I feel like my baby's loss was not wasted, at least something beautiful came out of it,and others are being blessed through the loss of this precious life.Thank you again friends of WIC.
Now after Schola looses her baby,it downs on me that most of the big bill that the doctor had charged on them was for the baby's stay in the incubator for 4 weeks,so when i went to see Schola,the doctor says right now her bill is 6,000,000 shillings which is about 2500$ US,and it will increase with time,.I am requesting you to please stand with Schola in this manner.contribute to her treatment so that we can have her back home.she is still in a bad condition,this is how she is looking right now,she feed through NG tube,we need your support,and you can send it to this address :
                                                                      Next Generation Ministries
                                                                         29940 Dhooghe road
                                                                          Colton,OR 97017
and please when sending your donation ,mark Woman In Crisis on the memo line of your check,and you will receive a tax deductible receipt for that.Keep Schola in your prayers.
I gave her the book HEAVEN IS FOR REAL By Todd,and I trust it will help her a lot.Thank you Melissa for sending those books,it is a ministry to mothers in Crisis.
God bless you all.